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The Science of a Happy Relationship:
How Positive Psychology, Mindfulness, and Gratitude Can Help Build Love that Lasts

For the past two decades, the field of positive psychology has been growing rapidly. Over that time, one of the key findings from positive psychology research has been: Other people matter. In fact, a pillar of positive psychology is that our close relationships with others are essential to human flourishing and happiness.

Romantic relationships in particular have an enormous influence on our well-being. Yet it is not always easy to maintain a long-term, healthy relationship.

In this day-long event, leading experts will explain how ground-breaking research can help support happy and lasting relationships. The day will feature husband-and-wife team Suzann Pileggi Pawelski and James Pawelski, who will summarize some of the key research findings highlighted in their recent book Happy Together: Using the Science of Positive Psychology to Build Love That Lasts—the first book on applying the principles of positive psychology to create thriving romantic relationships.

Specifically, they will discuss healthy habits that couples can cultivate to become happy together over the long term. Some of the evidence-based topics they will address include the importance of savoring shared experiences with one another and how to identify, build, and appreciate our strengths and those of our partner.

The day will also include presentations by other experts who will zero in on specific positive psychology skills and strengths. Shauna Shapiro, a world-renowned expert on the science and practice of mindfulness and compassion, will explain how those skills can help re-introduce joy, vitality, and intimacy into romantic relationships. Dr. Shapiro’s presentation will not only cover cutting-edge research on mindfulness and compassion but also offer concrete practices, based on that research, that couples can apply to reinvigorate their lives together.

Additionally, gratitude researcher Amie Gordon will highlight both the various ways in which gratitude helps support and sustain our most important relationships— and also the various barriers that make it more difficult to feel and express. Dr. Gordon will provide specific suggestions for how to overcome those barriers, along with evidence-based tips for cultivating more gratitude in relationships.

*The day will provide invaluable tools to anyone working with couples in professional settings or focused on helping people strengthen their relationships in general; it will also be useful to couples who want to deepen their bond.

There is no conflict of interest or commercial support for this program.

 

Presenter

Suzann Pileggi Pawelski, James Pawelski, Ph.D., Amie M. Gordon, Ph.D., Shauna Shapiro, Ph.D.

Suzann Pileggi Pawelski holds a Master of Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. Suzie and her husband, James Pawelski, are co-authors of the new book, Happy Together: Using the Science of Positive Psychology to Build Love That Lasts, and give Romance and Research™ workshops around the world. Suzie also pens a popular blog for Psychology Today and writes the “Science of Well-Being” column for Live Happy, where she is also a contributing editor.

James Pawelski, Ph.D. is Professor of Practice and Director of Education in the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania, where he co-founded the world’s first Master of Applied Positive Psychology Program with Martin Seligman in 2005. He is co-author, with his wife, Suzie, of Happy Together: Using the Science of Positive Psychology to Build Love That Lasts.

Amie M. Gordon, Ph.D. is a social-personality psychologist who is driven by the belief that our relationships underscore every aspect of our lives. Her research has been published in top academic journals as well as featured in popular news outlets such as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, and The Atlantic. She is currently the principal research scientist in the Emotion, Health, and Psychophysiology Lab at UCSF.

Shauna Shapiro, Ph.D. is a professor, author, and internationally recognized expert in mindfulness and compassion. Dr. Shapiro has published over 150 journal articles and co-authored two critically acclaimed books: The Art and Science of Mindfulness and Mindful Discipline. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Dr. Oz, and the American Psychologist. Dr. Shapiro is a summa cum laude graduate of Duke University and a Fellow of the Mind and Life Institute, co-founded by the Dalai Lama.

 

Target Audience:

Psychologists, Social Workers–Intermediate Level, MFTs, Counselors, Nurses, Teachers & Others — All Levels

 

Course Objectives:

Attendees Will Be Able to:
• Explain how to identify and appreciate a partner’s strengths
• Distinguish between a healthy and harmless passion
• Describe how positive emotions strengthen romantic relationships and how to prioritize them
• Explain the barriers to gratitude within relationships, along with evidencebased strategies for overcoming those barriers
• Describe how mindfulness and compassion can foster joy, vitality, and intimacy in romantic relationships
• Describe the Interaction Model of Strengths, which can help couples relate better to each other

 

Agenda

March 22, 2019
8:30 - 9:00 a.m. Registration and Check-In
9:00 - 9:15 Course Overview
9:15 - 10:30 James and Suzie Pawelski on how positive
psychology can sustain positive relationships
10:30 - 10:45 Break
10:45 - 12:00 p.m.       Amie Gordon on gratitude: benefits, barriers, and
strategies to cultivate it in relationships
12:00 - 1:00 Lunch (on your own)
1:00 - 2:15 Shauna Shapiro on mindfulness and compassion:
how they can foster joy, vitality, and intimacy in
relationships
2:15 - 2:30 Break
2:30 - 4:00 The Pawelskis on putting it all into practice: applying
and measuring couples’ strengths